Last Thoughts on Paris
So now that we're home and I've had a whopping 12 hours to sleep and refresh...here are some last thoughts on Paris:
- People say that "everyone in Paris speaks English" and at the same time they gripe that "the French are rude". What I found is that it is untrue that all of the Parisians speak French, and if they are rude, it might be that you've assumed wrongly that they understand you when they do not. Take the time to learn as much of their language as you can and you will see how friendly they really are!
- Always, without fail, greet people properly. "Bon Jour Madame/Monsieur/Madamoiselle" or "Bon Soir" if the sun has set will always set a conversation on a good foot.
- The French are not as casual as we are in speaking and greeting. Pepper your sentences with "please" ("s'il vous plait") and "thank you" ("merci"). They will notice and they treat you with the same courtesy and respect.
- The french are terrible about using appropriate stemware. Most restaurants will serve red wine in tiny little glasses. I find this irritating. They might not even have the proper stemware if you even ask for it.
- Learn to use the metro. Each line has a "start point" and an "end point" on the map. Figure out where you want to go, then which lines you need. Head in the direction of the endpoint that you need. Buy a carte orange (about 15€ for 7 days for areas 1 & 2) - take a small picture to Paris with you for your ID card so you'll be ready to go on arrival. The pic is required for your metro ID card. Max size is 1-1/8" tall.
- Pack lightly. Stuff a duffle into your carryon for purchases on the way home. Air France WILL weigh your carry-on bags (esp at SFO) so make sure yours is compliant.
- The French eat HUGE dinners. Breakfasts as we know them are hard to find. The French tend to eat a light breakfast as they're still STUFFED from the night before. Get used to this, or you'll pay top dollar for American style meals. Every block has a bakery. Maybe two or more.
- American style coffee is nearly nonexistant. Ask for a "cafe grand" if you need a lot of java in the morning. "Au lait" gets you some milk with it.
- Yes there is dog "merde" in the streets as well as urine. Watch for it. If you're lucky, you'll find them identified and tagged as we did.
- The pickpockets aren't as bad as you think, but the most unlikely will try to get into your pockets and wallets (ie, older women, children, etc). Put small locks on anything of value and keep the keys around your neck or deep in a pocket. You don't have to be paranoid of this fact, just be aware.
- Use ATMs to get cash. Your PIN might not work or it might be the last four digits of your PIN, or the first 4 (mine worked fine and is more than 4 digits). Call your bank before leaving to make sure. Ask them if they have a surcharge for converting dollars to euros. Most credit unions do not.
- 4€50 means "4 euros and 50 cents". It can be written like 4€50 or 4.50€. Euros are similar to American coinage.
- There's not a lot of great nightlife in Paris unless you like bars and DJ/house music. We didn't see a live band the entire time we were there. We DID look, too.
- Yes, the food is great everywhere. We had a lot of really great food in Paris. From the lowliest of places to very nice 5 course meals. It was all good.
- Not all croissants are created equally! Some are made with butter, and some with margarine. Ask for a "croissant du buerre" if you want one with the real thing. And if you happen to find the mythical shop in the Marsais that sells croissants with bananas and chocolate (as well as macaroons and sables), I will buy you dinner if you can give me the name/address/phone number of it!
- The Latin quarter is overrated. It's nearly the Disneyland of Paris. We preferred the Marais and Menilmontant by far. The Champs Elysees is dead at night except for the Buddah Bar, which is great for atmosphere, but way expensive for drinks (wine 9€, mixed drinks 12€) and comes with too much posing and attitude for our tastes. Dinner is outrageously expensive there, so don't even bother unless you have an expense account.
- Definitely avoid restaurants that advertise "we speak english" or post their menu ("la carte") in English. Also, check to see how busy a restaurant is to gauge how good it is. Restaurants don't get busy til 9PM or later, so this is only a gauge of it's quality if you are looking at this time or later. Always try to make a restaurant in person (calling is second best) to make sure that they can accomodate you.
- Order the "menu" or "plat du jour" when you can. The menu is a great deal, all inclusive. Meals in Paris include tax and service. If the tip isn't included, you can be sure that the waiter will let you know. They love Americans because they tend to not believe that the meal price includes tip and will often tip on top of that. If the menu says "prix net" anywhere on it, that is also a guarantee that the service is included. If the service is spectacular, leave a couple extra euros to show they are appreciated.
Again, I can't stress how friendly we found the people in Paris to be. Complete strangers would stop and ask us if we needed help when they spotted us scanning a map to try to find out where we were. In America, you'd be hard pressed to find this sort of behaviour. I don't know where people in America get the idea that people in France are rude or short with Americans. They are some of the warmest, friendliest people we've ever met, and I can only assume that Americans much be jealous on some level and by some weird twist of psychology, they have to turn them into something lesser in order to cope with their inadequacies.
They have great food, great wine, culture, a beautiful countryside, stunning chateaus and palaces and history that makes ones head spin, a great medical system, and much more.
Why wouldn't anyone be jealous of that? :-)
A bientot!
Linda et John